Tips for long-term relationship

Take your time; there is plenty of it as far as good relationships are concerned!

Begin by simply being friends with the person you are seeking a relationship with. This stage is vital as it allows you to learn more about your partner, as well as confirm/deny your feelings towards a relationship with them.

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Tell each other everything. If there's something you don't like about them, tell them how you feel. The relationship isn't going to work unless you settle your differences.

Never cheat. Cheating has ruined many relationships. If it's variety that you want, then do role playing, or anything along those lines. Being with someone else will make your partner wonder why someone else was better than them. If you are seriously considering cheating, you should consider ending the relationship so your partner won't get hurt.

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Be spontaneous. Surprise your partner with tickets to a game or movie. When it's nice and sunny outside, a picnic would be very romantic, or a walk by the lake. Even just the simple flowers on a doorstep with a cute note would work.

Spend time with each other. You don't want to miss each other too much. But then you don't want to spend so much time with each other to the point they are sitting in the bathroom with you.

Tell your loved one how much you love them. If you don't do this often, they're going to feel neglected and like you don't care anymore.

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Make the commitment. Put your time and money where your commitment is. Love is not always a warm fuzzy feeling. Often it is a conscious choice. Choosing to overlook deficiencies, choosing to deal kindly rather than harshly with mistakes, and choosing to do for the other person that which you know will make them feel special. Having someone set aside their own wishes to make you feel special is incredibly heartwarming and flattering. Do this for your mate and watch the relationship blossom.

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Going off the basis that a good long term relationship is based around love, we can look into how love is defined. Dr. Sternberg (a psychologist who studied love) put forth an article speaking of the different aspects of love. In short, there are three vital components that make up true love (or consummate love). These components are Intimacy, Passion, and Commitment. The intimacy portion of love is that of friends; you enjoy spending time together, and have grown rather close strictly within the realms of "personality attraction." The passion aspect can attribute to many relationship losses. Although physical attraction is necessary in a relationship, this feeling does not need to be acted upon without full fulfillment of the intimacy aspect. If you rush head-first into passion without considering the needs of a very close friend, somebody is going to end up hurt. The final, and equally important, aspect is that of Commitment. There are two forms of commitment, short-term and long-term. Short-term commitment is the thought of simply saying "I am willing to love this person" this may not involve a necessary long term commitment, but it is the initial choice that one makes before entering the relationship. The long-term aspect (and the one we're discussing) is the choice to remain with said person for an extended portion of time. When all three aspects are fulfilled, consummate love is attained.

Now that you fully understand what love is, you can make your own assumptions as to what you need to do. While every aspect does not need to be instantly attained (IE. some portions may come later in the relationship) usually all need to be present in order to maintain a healthy long term relationship.

TIPS:

·         Remember to take it slowly! A long-term relationship is something to work towards, it is not just given to you. Just make sure that neither you, nor your partner is uncomfortable with any aspect of the relationship you are in and you'll be fine.

·         Communication can be the key. Although early on there may be nervous apprehension, this is all part of the game. In time though, you may need to be fully frank with someone and let them know how you feel.

·         Don't be offended if they say something you disagree with. If they don't like the place you want to take them to dinner, go somewhere else that you both like, even if you might be a little tired of it.

·         Be sure that you're with someone you really love. Don't tell yourself you're going to be with someone forever just because you like the way their eyes are, or how toned their abs look. If the only thing you guys have in common is that you like cheese, it might be a good idea to find someone you can see yourself with forever.

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How to Overcome Depression

                                     

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Suffering from depression means more than just dealing with a bad week or even a bad month -- depression is a weakening condition that can make it impossible for you to enjoy your daily existence. If you are plagued with feelings of overwhelming sadness, loneliness, worthlessness, and cannot imagine that things will get any better, then you may be suffering from depression. If you want to know how to overcome your depression and enjoy your life again, follow these steps.

Part One: Understanding Your Depression

                                           

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To overcome your depression, you have to first see if you're feeling the symptoms of depression. Though depression is different for every person, there are a few signs that mean that you're having much more than just a bad day.If you feel worthless, helpless, or guilty without knowing why; feeling hopeless about most aspects of your life and can't imagine that anything will improve for you; feel a decrease in your energy level and are tired no matter what you do; feel restless at night and have trouble sleeping and waking up in the morning; stopped feeling pleasure in the events that used to make you happy, such as spending time with friends, pursuing your hobbies, or being intimate; there has been a dramatic change in your sleeping habits, such as insomnia, early-morning wakefulness, or excessive sleeping; lost your appetite or are overeating but cannot stop; it is much easier for you to be alone than to put the effort into interacting with others; prefer to be alone than to interact with others; constantly feel irritable for no reason; thinking suicidal thoughts, seek help immediately– then YOU ARE SUFFERING FROM DEPREDDION!

If you are suffering from serious depression, it is time to see a doctor. Even if you're fixed about not taking anti-depressives or other medications unless it's necessary, talking to a doctor can help you identify some of the medical causes for your depression. You can search for the life-situation causes after you talk to a doctor. Here are some reasons that a doctor may find for your depression:If you have a drug or alcohol addiction, then this may be a cause for your depression; if depression runs in your family, you are more likely to be depressed; if you have a thyroid problem or another hormonal imbalance, it may be causing your depression; another illness; if you're taking a medication for another problem, a doctor can tell you if depression is one of the side effects and may be able to switch you to an equally-effective medication without this side-effect.

If you've spoken with a doctor and have determined that you do not need or do not want prescription drugs, you should start thinking about some root causes for depression that may be causing you pain in your everyday life. Though your depression may not be caused by the situations in your life, there's a good chance that specific people or events in your life may be making you deeply unhappy. Here are a few things that may be causing or worsening your depression:failed or unfulfilling romantic relationship. If you are going through a devastating break-up, or are in a relationship that is causing you great pain, then it could be contributing to your depression; disappointing family relationship or friendship; unrewarding career; undesirable environment; and financial reasons.

Starting a journal can help you reflect on your depression and feelings and monitor your sensations throughout the day. Make a goal of writing in your journal at least once a day, preferably in the evenings, when you can wrap up whatever the day brought you. Writing in a journal can make you feel more in touch with your thoughts, less alone, and more aware of the things that make you happy or unhappy. Writing in a journal will also help you focus and shut off your mind from all the stressful tasks around you.

Part Two: Improving Your Life

                                  

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                If you have decided there are some serious personal causes that have been contributing to your depression, then it is time to take a deep breath and start cutting the undesirable elements out of your life. Here are a few things you can do to improve your life and overcome your depression: Eliminate toxic or unhealthy relationships out of your life; if there is something in a relationship that is troubling you, have a serious conversation; if you seriously hate your career, it is time to think about pursuing what you love; if you cannot stand your environment, see if it is possible for you to find a new place to live.

                Though you may feel the last thing you want to do is to have a busy schedule because you are feeling so sad and slow, keeping a busy schedule will force you to stay active, focused, and thinking about the next thing on your plate. You can draw up a schedule for each day every week, or the day before, and make a goal of sticking to it.

                Though you may feel so worthless that you could not imagine anyone wanting to talk to you, you should rely heavily on your network of friends and family members, as well as your significant other if you have one. Friends will not only help you cope with your depression by talking about it, but they can make you feel more loved and supportive.

                Though you may feel so depressed that you only think about yourself, you should try taking a step back and spend time being generous to the people you love and the people in your community. Being generous will increase your self-worth and will make you realize there are many people out there who need you.

                Finding a new passion can help you feel like you have more of a purpose in life and can give you a reason to wake up in the morning. A passion can be anything you care deeply about, even if it is not something you are good at -- yet.

Part Three: Developing Healthier Habits

                                        

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Improving your sleeping habits can make a drastic improvement on your mental health. Work on finding a sleep schedule and a waking up and going to bed routine that works for you.

Exercising for just thirty minutes a day will have a dramatic impact on your physical and mental health. Exercising will make you have more energy and feel more motivated throughout the day.

Improving your diet will also help you feel less depressed. Even if you're losing your appetite, you need to be determined to eat three healthy and balanced meals a day. You don't need to try to lose weight or be incredibly health-conscious when you're dealing with your depression, but eating healthier food regularly will improve your mental and physical state.

Being a more positive thinker will help you look at your life and world in a way that fills you with hope instead of despair. To think more positively, you should learn how to recognize your negative thoughts and to fight them with stronger positive thoughts whenever you can. Find at least five things to be grateful for and happy about every single day.

While you will not beat your depression by transforming yourself into a runway model, if you take more time to maintain your looks and hygiene every day, you will feel better about yourself. Though you may not feel like taking care of your body, you should shower daily, shower as often as you need to, and take the time to brush your teeth and hair.

Healthy Relationships

To have a good relationship you need to have a good communication. Communication is the way to have a better and long term relationship. Talking to each other  is a way to know more on your partner.Even in the beginning God created two people in this world to have a communication.

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Every person have a reserved partner, We created with a purpose in life. We never do accidentally and we never make’s mistakes. We are the one who hold our relationship, It’s up to us how we handle our relationship, How we make it better. If you want to have a healthy relationship you need to  accept the truth  and accept any iniquities or weaknesses of your partner .There are ways how to  build a Happy and Perfect relationship.

Speaking a problem is a good points for relationship because it is better to speak up than to hold it in.

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Discuss problems is good way for both , cause they will learned how to accept and correct the short coming of each. Love and respect should go hand in hand. Man should love and respect their woman. Respecting their feeling and Suggestion is a big help. However, too many women aren't finding love because they haven't found respect. Men should respect and take care their woman. Without mutual respect, any relationship will be an unhappy one. People who respect each other, value each other’s opinions, listen to each other, disagree without screaming is a good help to a relationship

Honesty is big part in a relationship, Honest produced trust to each other. Trust is important to a relationship cause without trust relationship is nothing. It’s like a Playing a Basketball without a ring or  doing laundry without soap or powder. It’s  useless.

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Supporting your Partner is importing thing, He/She needs a presence in any kind of activity. A encouragement,self motivator,cheerer,comedian when she’s sad, Hand when she Fall and most of all Infinite Lover.